May 2025 Update

First of all, since my last post in 2023, my husband of 26 years, Kirk Lawrence-Howard, passed away of Covid, six months after our March 2024 early retirement to Cuenca, Ecuador. He received world class healthcare but was unable to fight off the virus. There is a memorial page for him with much more information at http://kirklawrence.com.

Kirk and I had planned to explore Ecuador and the wider world, and I am going to live out that dream, largely as a solo traveler. Since I no longer have social media, I’m going to use this site to document my future travels.

On my current two year temporary Ecuadorian visa, I’m only allowed 90 days out of the country until I get my permanent visa in January of 2026. At that point I’ll have more available days to travel more widely out of Ecuador. So I’ve decided to make weeklong trips within Ecuador every month until this January.

This is my upcoming travel schedule:

  • May 2025: Sisid Anejo, Ingapirca, and Biblian
  • June 2025: Chimborazo, Quito, Mindo
  • July 2025: Cotopaxi and Quilatoa
  • August 2025: Izhcayluma
  • September 2025: Kapawi Ecolodge in the Ecuadorian Amazon
  • October 2025: TBD
  • November 2025: Loja

December holidays in Cuenca are magical, so I will likely stay around the city, and I have a guest coming early December for two weeks.

Each of my future trips will get a post. If you want to be emailed when new posts are made, please contact me to be added as a user.

updated wordpress theme

just installed the 4.0 version of scott wallick’s plaintxtblog theme, which in layman’s terms is the file that makes this blog looks like it does. the change should be invisible to you, but the underlying functionality is better for me. i tweak it a bit to make it my own:

» i edit the styles.css file so that everything except the blog titles are in lowercase. pretentious, i know, but a queerspace.com tradition dating to 1998.

» i edit the header.php file to use the optimal title plugin (a better page title for the search engines) update: this plugin was deprecated and the functionality has been incorporated into wordpress. now all you have to do is make this change:

wp_title('»',TRUE,'right')

to the header.php file (take out the php the title at the end and the various slashes, so it looks like “post title » queerspace.com”)

to the style.css file add this to make the “search for” text go away:
.widget_search .screen-reader-text {
display:none;
}

» i delete the <meta name="description"> line so i can use the head meta description plugin (a better page description for the search engines). update: no longer necessary with plaintxt 4.6

now you know.

and now it’s in writing, so the next time i upgrade i’ll remember what to do.

and if you see anything odd or something i’ve forgotten, leave me a comment.

update: i also changed the way that the category dates display by editing “wp-includes/general-template.php” using a tip from wordpress.org. this is an edit to the wordpress files, not the theme, but as this post is serving as a repository for my edits, what the hell. also, updated the footer to include the creative commons license and other info. and also, edited “wp-includes/default-widgets.php” so that “select category” and “select month” are lowercase.

update: also, when you update your wordpress version, you should delete the readme.html file so that your wordpress version isn’t easily accessible.